Jagamum naan Ahamum naan

Early childhood when I have seen my mom working, managing home and yours truly, I always had a awe induced respect for her. Dad was rock solid support but still she has enough on her plate. Now with me doing the same thing single handedly and when I see the out come ("Dewy") let's just say the difference is evident. Anyway at times my mom can be little crazy. Like for last week, I didn't call her as I have been stuck in the rut and somehow never gotten ahead calling her 3 days straight. And I call her on Friday all she asks is all good and keeps her phone down. Yeah that went well. Better than my visa interview where the guy rejected after asking name. . Now I know it's her eagerness to hear about us and still this anger is uncalled for On a complete another instance, I am ferrying dewy and her friends to a party. Her friend asks her something about God and my ears are now attentive. I mean I never asked her directly on her views about Mr.Almighty. H...

Blame our parents!!!  Woah!!! Strong topic!!! Cringe worthy I was just wondering( which I am doing a lot these days ) that how much it is imbibed into our head that a woman needs her man. So back ground on it. Was out to check out an armoire and it was evening. Since sun sets later these days and hence 6.30 in evening is not that late, I was out at that time.  It became cloudy, dark and for no sensible reason I was feeling insecure which wasn't the case when it was sunny. I am sure people can relate to what I am talking. If you have someone sitting with you at that moment; it does makes you feel secure. Though I hate to point out that unless the person is Bruce Lee or any of our Bollywood heroes who has fight off villains (sometimes with a look) ; it is of no use. So I took it to mission to teach Dewy to be independent, and never ever feel insecure in her own skin.  And I feel it is important as I see where are going; that she necessarily might not h...